Please keep me in your prayers. Having divorce hearing on Friday. Moving out of my home for nearly a decade a week later. My life will be reduced to all that I can carry in two pieces of luggage. Everything else is going or will be gone. Trying not to have a nervous breakdown.
@John_Scotus Been there. Such change is never easy, but it's usually for the best.
Head up. You'll go through some shit, but then you'll be free. One step at a time.
@John_Scotus Here for you bro.
@John_Scotus been there, done that. It gets better, and it’s survivable. You’ll be ok. It won’t be fun going through the first few weeks. Try not to panic. Make sure you eat. (Unless you’re overweight like me - then maybe you could lose a couple pounds).
I got lucky, we’re still together and reconciled - but I still now live most of the time 500 miles away for work. So technically still separated.
It’s painful but the pain will ease.
@John_Scotus if you have kids - what helped me was taking one of my son’s shirts and using it as a pillow case. I still had his smell nearby.
And no alcohol. Last thing you need is to go down that road.
Just try to remember: it isn’t going to kill you. You’re not going to be destitute. You are not alone. You’re strong enough to get through it.
@John_Scotus take heart. Things will get better even though it’s hard to envision that now. One step at a time.
@John_Scotus praying for you! 🙏🏼