Mind if I bitch for a minute?
As I got off the plane last night, returning from my brother’s memorial, I received a text from the person (uncle) who had told everyone(bragged) he was paying for everything (which was nice, but unnecessary). The text was informing me of the total cost for everything. So I wrote and mailed a check for the full amount, plus estimated hotel costs, mileage to and from, and per diem for 3 days for him and his wife. Sent him a text back with a photo of the check.
And you wouldn’t believe the shit storm that caused! Aunts and uncles calling saying I’ve misunderstood his intentions. I don’t think I misunderstood at all. He didn’t need to pay, he claimed he wanted to. The truth is my aunt wanted to, and he probably resented it.
I may send him a couple grand at Xmas - with a note that I know things are tough.
I am normally nice, but come on - if you wanted money, ask. Or don’t volunteer to pay.
Spite is my superpower.
And I’m a bitch’s bitch. But I’m not passive aggressive. My sister says I’m aggressive-aggressive, which is probably accurate.
@InUnfunky @jeffdavenport Oooo! I like that! I've been saying I'm aggressive-aggressive for years!
Active-aggressive sounds better and feels more accurate.