Welp... mom died in July, & now dad is ill. He just spent over a week in the hospital. Diagnosis: congestive heart failure (CHF).
He's 80. Right now I'm staying at a family property about 5-10 minutes away from his house. Supposedly his care team sent referrals to home care services to get folks in to visit him several times a week.
We haven't heard from them yet. I plan to call the team tomorrow and ask where they sent referrals so I can call those places & ask what happens next & what we need to do.
Meanwhile I got him signed up for LifeAlert, because what got him into the hospital in the first place was he fell & spent 9 hours on the bathroom floor.
Didn't break a hip, thank Athena Asclepia, but he was dehydrated when he went in, & confused. It took a couple of days to stabilize him while they tried to figure out what was going on.
He's home now. He gets soooooo tired so fast. It's scary. He's usually been pretty spry and active.
He's also still discombobulated from the hospital stay. New meds on board, new condition, all that - it's hard staying in a hospital, it disrupts your routine bigtime. He got great care, but dude is worn out, no surprise there.
I'm trying to get him to drink water & rest as much as he can. He is, of course, stubborn as fuck & it's like pushing a wet noodle around.
@Impious_Jade I’m sorry to hear about your dad (and your mom). These times are never easy. Know that somewhere in the world, someone is sending peace of mind and strength your way.
@0nbalance Thank you <3
@Impious_Jade oh man, these old dudes often work against their best interests! we've dealt with that, it's brutal. I know it's not pleasant, you are not alone :)
@Zevon Yeah I hear it's an epidemic, LOL. Stubborn-ass Silent Generation...
@Impious_Jade *bingo* lol ... we laugh at what we can when we can :)
@Impious_Jade that's good :)
I'm so sorry--such a terrible time for you 💜
@Impious_Jade I'm sorry for the loss of your mom 💚 and now your father's illness. That's a lot.
We're dealing with the decline of my ex (my son's dad) who only today agreed to enter palliative care. It's terribly hard to see our loved ones suffer 🤗
When it rains, it fucking pours.