The part that fucked us up is that a lot of adults assumed that because we were all really smart, that therefore we didn't need to be taught anything. And they NEVER focused on our emotional & psych development AT ALL.
I can't say that gifted programs aren't warranted, necessarily. I firmly believe that ECE & primary education is best when it can support *every* student where they are, who they are, whether they're "gifted" or not. There's so many downsides to gifted programs I don't even have time to get into them here...
They fed our minds & brains & intellect with a feast any child should have access to. And they did jack shit for things like our emotional intelligence or psyches. We were all 10 or 12 & they assumed we were adults.