@Say_what_now @sfleetucker I'm so sorry he did that to you. I agree that karma - or maybe fate, or simply mindless existence - eventually sorts it all out. Some years ago as part of processing everything, I found it helpful to recognize that being him was punishment enough, and even if he lived a long life, he'd always be the shit human he is. I don't have to do anything but work on me. If that makes sense.