This is the rose in question: https://davesgarden.com/guides/pf/go/72884/#b
I now own a house & plan to plant a cottage garden in the front. Yesterday I emailed one of the nurseries I'd contacted back in the day. They don't have Ophelia available this season, but can grow me a plant in 2024.
So I'll get to plant Ophelia in my very own yard after all. <3
Now I just have to find either a peanut plant or some plant named 'Peanut", for my 2nd dog (the one who died in January).