One of my fave quotes about hope comes from one of my fave movies, 'The Lion in Winter'.
Queen Eleanor & King Henry Plantagenet are having a come-to-Jesus moment in the wine cellar of Chinon castle, & they have the following exchange:
E: There's everything in life but hope.
H: We're both alive... & for all I know, that's what hope is.
The monologue, for anyone who hasn't seen it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbzcFbhPV-o
Nigel Stock also does a bang-up job as the oft put-upon Sir William Marshal. He doesn't have many lines, so had to deliver a physical performance & rely on facial expression & body language.
Whenever I watch the film I find myself thinking, holy shit, Marshal had a helluva job working for such a dynasty.
Marshall the historic figure actually had a really interesting life - here's an overview. Yeah, it's Wikipedia; use it as a starting point, not a final authority. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Marshal,_1st_Earl_of_Pembroke
When the war was over Will was released, & later fostered & trained as a knight errant by this dude named William de Tancarville. Will was a younger son so didn't stand to inherit any land, so knighthood it was. He was particularly good at tourneys, not so great at battle combat, but earned a reputation for bravery.
He didn't get married until he was 43, when he wed the 17-year-old Isabel de Clare, daughter of the Earl of Pembroke. They had 10 kids & by all contemporary accounts, the marriage was a happy one. Together they were something of a power couple, navigating politics through a number of conflicts & reigns.
@Impious_Jade Wondering who you think the modern day equivalent might be.
@elbutterfield Hmm... that's a really good question.
In some ways, there couldn't be an equivalent: we don't have the same system of feudalism & system of knightly chivalry that they had then, & I'm not sure what a modern analog to that would be.
@elbutterfield Who, these days, had an adventurous life from an early age, became a skilled warrior, was/is a brave & principled person serving multiple leaders, faithful & loving to their spouse, generally thought of as pretty awesome by the standards of the day?
I'm honestly not sure. I'll have to think about that one.
@elbutterfield Lt. Col. Alexander Vindman comes to mind, possibly.
@Impious_Jade Colin Powell would be a good candidate too.
@elbutterfield Yeah, or Zelensky, maybe.
@Impious_Jade Oh yes! Interesting.
They hung out with guys who had names like Ranulf & Guy & Gilbert & were nicknamed 'Strongbow' & shit like that.
So that should give you a sense of the time.