Good Morning Folks! Missed ya all; seems I"Ve become a Nanny to my now 7 mo old Granddaughter. Daycare costs here are ridiculous, so kiddo decided Grandma was perfect; my body says otherwise😅 I'll do it awhile longer to help out; cold weather is showing it wants to get cranked up at night; the early morning cold + my RA isn't my idea of being on Disability & resting a weary body! And chasing a 7 month old active little one can be quite...interesting and exhausting; love doing it though❤️

Riiiight! That, plus no official hospital report or conference. Knowing his M-O, you'd think he'd have made a bigger fuss about a press conference with hospital staff in front of media. Can't say his Detail wouldn't allow it; still making public appearances, which they probably also don't approve.

Hi Folks!❤️

🤔 I have many questions, but this one is perplexing me. I waited for someone to ask, but; haven't seen it.

As a frmr CNA, youth worker, Grandma, &, Mom, I've seen blood gushes, spatters, drips, &, flows. I've seen it wiped, &, smears left behind.

HOW was Tumps collar still pristine white, esp after being shoved around & down, As IT FLOWED if ears bleed so hard, before any wiping? No shot splatter or downflow I see 🕵️‍♀️

Maybe I need to review my body fluids & gravity knowledge? All wiped away?

Hubs won't let me sit outside half dressed. He told me come in, but I have an incredible urgent to pull off shirt & sit on curtained porch w/onlybbra & pants on. I told him I could say it's my bikini top.

He said come inside NOW, that I must be having a heat stroke or have lost my mind! 🤣🤣👵🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

Why do I need to go in; I'm grown. Young folks do it 🤣

I hope you all have been fine ❤️ we're barely maintaining, but our Faith holds us up. Even on a 'bad' day, I do my best to help someone feel better, thereby making me cheerier.😆

My Grandma used to say "No matter how bad you think you're doing, there's someone else in worse shape"

Just that thought keeps my 🧠 from overwhelming negative thoughts. Folks, you might have a 'bad' day, but you're alive & that's a good thing to concentrate on; problems eventually are solved. Hang in there!

Grrr Always waiting on rides.When 👶🏼sitting, kiddo exceeds speed limits in a.m. & I'm tossed around; wear neck brace when riding. I 🙏🏽every ride no harm comes to my Grands (even though Bebe boys). I'm TOTALLY afraid to ride. Nothing I say slows her. I've become afraid of riding w/anyone due to meds & her crazy driving. I tell her get up a lil earlier, to no avail. I need a seated e-scooter🛵 or e-🚲 to get there & essentials (have GoFundMe ☹️) or truck registered, inspected, tagged; $ limited.🙏🏽for me

I defend my Hubs; he talks nicely to people, but I hear all his frustrations & try to block those who aggravate him, man or woman. He's the sweetest man who speaks to all in public. Love him dearly. I wish I could be so calm when aggravated; I try, but the 👿 in me can be fierce.

Practicing being nice sometimes doesn't work for me when someone constantly nags

Forgot; dude threatened to shoot his & neighbors 🏡

Me, I'm def a 🐉. Sometimes I lose my 😎 if it involves his mental health.

He, in one month, has had 4 cars. 1st 2 had issues. Total lossed 3rd on Father's Day. Present car has battery issues & is up on bricks😢 He came this a.m. to borrow a car charger; I lost my religion on him, Hubs told him nicely his Bro had it, but told him stop coming here worrying Hubs(doesn't want to be bothered; has mental issues inc PTSD from Dad beating him & Mom; threatening a woman sets him off); Hubs/I walked up to neighbor's house to talk to our 90yr old Minister to calm down. She said🙏🏽😏

Also, found out the man, who just moved in w/his wife, just got out from a 20yr prison sentence for forceful stolen car & police chase ending w/then 14 mo old son not in car seat landing in passenger floorboard, seriously injured. Charged w/drugs, gang stuff, chase related, a felony child abuse charge. He doesn't know I researched him; lied to our face about some facts🤣He worries all the neighbors; wants to borrow this or that. Argues w/wife, fights her, & calls her & other women B's.

Sweltering heat & clothing don't go well together. Not babysitting today (Thank you Jesus!😆) Sitting on porch watching crazy neighbors. Had a big blowout Saturday; police came 2x. Ongoing property fued; not over; cops will come again I'm sure. Both parties are loud & petty. One is related to my Hubs on Dad's side, but they only wave at each other. She was mean until she realized he was fam. Other party, a man, threatened to beat her. She's Bi. She told him she would whup his A & I KNOW she can🤣

Geez; G'Morn! Super busy caring for 3 mo old Grand & her 2 bros, 5 & 7.

I love them dearly, but the boys are what we would call Bebe kids! Ugh; worn out after a day of yelling, spanking, & gentle Grandma talks. Nothing seems to tame them. The 5 yr old is 🤔 well, he needs anger management & therapy. He gets angry & destructive when he can't get his way. Still wets bed at night, ugh. Wet it on purpose during the day because Mama told him go to his room. Therapist & Dr said he's normal 5 yr old🤷‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️