Women: never allow someone to call you a b, here or elsewhere. Not even in jest. That word puts me in fight mode. Some can let it roll off, I can't seem to.

Male neighbor called me that once; Hubs had to literally pick big ol me up & carry in house. I will fight a man & knock a female out for it. Neighbor moved, thank goodness; I was ready to burn his house down. Taught my kids to never use, even w/friends

I'm not normally violent; just certain words are triggers. It's my Portuguese side😬🤷‍♀️