@MarvelousMadi13 Madi, baby. I've been there. It's never easy but try to talk to the kids and get their true view
@MarvelousMadi13 No uncommon. They want to please the parent they're with. Less friction. KWIM?
However, who tells you what they say when they're with your ex. Is it your ex? Could that be exaggerated or false?
@Graci she claims it what they say, but I don't know for sure.
@MarvelousMadi13 I figured as much. It's filtered through her hurt/anger. My guess is it is just an exaggeration of something they said. Something that was minor. I've heard the same thing from many people over the years. In my case the kids were too young to have this issue.
@Graci I hope so
@Graci it seems there view is different when they talk to me vs their mother, which makes it hard.