@thedisasterautist This at this point is a major thing driving me towards evaluation since the possibility of being on the spectrum myself has been sincerely raised. I'm 50. I got this far without a diagnosis. I've identified strategies for a lot of whatever my deal is and will likely be fine without paperwork. But if there is a part of my identity I can quantify I want to do it legitimately and not anecdotally because of not wanting to be part of what I've seen come from the 'self diagnosed'
@Fellixe: Understandable.