I was completely baffled by all the rage as I wasn't seeing it. Then I figured out it's because I read my hashtags and friends but not the firehose that much.
I prefer my water filtered. 💦
I've been on the internet for a very long time. I've been on pretty much every iteration of online community. I've made online friends who became real life friends.
The main thing I have learned is that some people are poor written communicators, others are sloppy readers, and everyone has a bad day. I tend to wait for patterns of assholishness to emerge before I Bozo Bin someone.