Personally I always start here
75 Best Christmas Gifts for Men Who Never Shop for Themselves
https://www.popularmechanics.com/home/g37328209/best-christmas-gifts-for-men/
@DJNoneYa god help me, but there is some fun stuff on there.
@DJNoneYa I think that the best bet, because we're so stunted, is that you figure out what few things we do and then go and find the stupid/luxury/obscure bits for that. Like "oh they drink whiskey" and so you get them fancy glasses. For me it's stuff like that or cooking stuff (I do most of the cooking/baking here) so it's stuff that I'd never buy myself.
@DJNoneYa Honest to god I reckon this s part of the whole patriarchy/socialization thing. "nope, no interests besides yelling at sports and cars for you".
I used to think about that whole thing a lot til my current fella...he detests sports, and he's not in to cars....
that's always been my go to coming from a family of men who are....
relearning how to shop has been an adventure
@DJNoneYa yep, I watch almsot no sports, don't drive. That said, you get me some power tools for wood working or some baking shit? I'm happy like a pig in poop.
@Camerondotca that's been my go to for my guy too...beside tech computer stuff....those are all his favs
@DJNoneYa Lee Valley is probably late because it's all online shopping, but that will cover ALL THE THINGS. So many of the things, many many.. that I want horribly.
@Camerondotca what ever I do I have to get it into the mail this weekend according to the shipping schedules by the USPS
@Camerondotca thanks I'll look there ....