I’m 57 and found out several years ago the person who also helped create me through ancestry.

After a couple years of texting he asked if i would like to meet- super excited because I wanted to ask him but was scared of rejection.

Now his wife has started texting me -guise of she wants to get to know me first- getting”this is between us” type of texts. She is telling me a visit maybe next year- but accidentally sent meant for someone else- “not anytime soon, I don’t need her problems”