So, something happened yesterday.
What do you say to a friend who suddenly lost his brother in a crash?
@0x56 just spotted this post, my go to website is called Refugeingrief.com and is spilt into 2 sections. Part 1 is for the person who feels direct loss and part 2 is how to support someone who is experiencing unexpected grief.
The lady who runs the site also has books dealing with unexpected grief