@LnzyHou There's a very fine line between "being mean" and "being so kind while specifically being mean to you in a way other people will brush off if you complain". I used to hear my grandmother say things to her sister that left me in shock because you only knew how cruel it was if you paid careful attention!
@weirdfizz
My stepmother always astounded me with the cruelty of her words. Even with her own children. Vicious.