UPDATE
There is a lot to unpack here.
My son rejected rehab BUT he actually very ok rn. He's long past detox &back to himself
SUNDAY the cops came to door to serve a warrant on him. (Surprise but not unexpected) this was the same RICO charge as the narcissist. BUT NO WORRIES, we have a documented defense. Ian had only just started hanging out with this guy, he was not part of the group
The N fed my son drugs & he lost himself. He'd sleep in car while these guys did crimes using my car
1/x
Alanon can help you.
@LnzyHou yes it can. But I a
@LnzyHou lol &^ but I think my husband and I need some therapy for narcissistic abuse.
My son is going through some physical exams with is medical doctor. They are working t9gether on the main cause of his drug seeking behavior. The medical condition (extreme understim from bad adhd)
Most Dr's won't treat his adhd because he's been labeled medication seeking. It's a sad loop.
But we are mending together. π
Please get support for yourself.
@ucantstop_me I am happy for you that you have been moving through this ordeal with a plucky attitude.. leading to the peace you now feel.
@Wbtphdjd felony arrest warrant. RICO bc this guy had a theft and drug ring and he kept his group drugged and addicted.
We have lawyers. I'm not protesting the arrest tho. Some bad shit happened to us in December & there ARE consequences to address & clear up.
But yes, I'll have the attorney review the video.
It was weird and just want to make sure it was proper. It probably was. We (including my son) were polite & cooperative. They even thanked us for bring so nice lol I think they felt bad
@ucantstop_me Cripes, hun, what an awful saga to have to live through. I hope you're seeing some light at the end of the tunnel.
@AskTheDevil yes I am seeing the light again β€οΈ
It's unbelievable. It would make a scary tense movie. But the worst is over π
@ucantstop_me I'm glad you have a documented defense and he's doing better. That's a lot of weight to carry.
How are you holding up?
@NiveusLepus I'm better now. π
2/x ^^
But the way the 4 cops came in (would not show me warrant because my son is an adult)
I question their entry. But I have it all on video. Since my son turned in all those drug dealers, I have indoor and out door security cameras.
Also. He's opening up about some moments he remembers.
Some of it is scary af.
Also I got my PEACE back. That asshole had stolen my peaceful house and it my home (which is a main source of gratitude was ripped from me/us)
But I have peace back now. π