We could totally confer the "blessings of the unicorn" on a person with words of healing and peace, but middle finger extended.
@tippitiwichet No, it means grim, mocking and cynical.
@CelluloidBlonde We need more words, or I need to find a dictionary that is as fun to browse as the one that I had as a kid.
Is sardonic the word that means sarcastic, but in a hopeful way? I don't think there's words for my feelings anymore.