Thoughts:
When you were a young person, did you follow the crowd? Did you socialize with the "in group"? Or try to be "normal"? Did you seek the praise of influential people?
Or did you run your own race. Go your own way. Dance to your own tune. Give little fucks about what others thought of you.
My (over simplified) guess is that if the first fits you, BlueSky feels like home. And if the second fits, then CoSo, is your home.
I could be wrong.
