I had a friend who moved away recently. She didn’t tell me she and her partner were thinking about moving or looking for jobs in another state, they just called one night and were like “surprise! We’re leaving in a month!” I was pretty upset that she hadn’t warned me, and that I had texted her several days before that and she never answered, but when she answered my text finally a few days after, I responded. She never answered. That was 3 months ago. So last week I decided to try one last time,
2/ but one again she didn’t bother to answer. I really thought we were good friends, and finding out I was just a friend of convenience to her and she doesn’t even miss me was pretty devastating. I’m not sure how to get over it. She was my only local friend, so it’s a big loss in that way as well.