@catlynne333 So sorry Lynn, you had each other for a long time
@catlynne333 I imagine that will change now?
@gemswinc i do hope somtimes in vain ..I am so lonely
@catlynne333 Oh dear. I know lonely ๐ซ Give her time, ๐โโฌ perhaps she'll become a mellow meow.
@gemswinc 8 years no change
@catlynne333 But your other kitty died recently? So, maybe more time?
@gemswinc yeah i doubt it she wont let me touch her and if i come in the room she hides
@gemswinc most of the time she is hidden
@catlynne333 After eight years? Poor cat must have been very traumatized at one time
@catlynne333 Just caught she's feral. That explains a lot
@gemswinc yeah her mom was jealous and kept her away from me when i would walk close to her she the mom.. would run at her and bite if she got anywhere near me
@gemswinc so 8 years of that she thinks i am the enemy
@catlynne333 I get it now. I wish you luck, and patience
@gemswinc I have never had a feral indoor cat before it is really weird
@gemswinc Not her fault so i put up with it and try and give her a nice comfortable warm home
@catlynne333 That's all you can do.
@catlynne333 I've had feral, indoor/outdoor. One of my favorite cats. If I was lucky he'd let me pet his beautiful spotted belly. Then one day, he disappeared, without a trace. Neighborhood flyers & everything. I still miss him.
@gemswinc oh i am sorry that is sad
@catlynne333 Got him as a kitten. DH brought him home, as they were clearing out a feral cat colony at BNL,where he worked. But once feral, always feral, it seems. We maybe had him two years.
@gemswinc Thanks that makes me feel better . You will never know how much..My family wants me to put her to sleep. I say Never its not her fault
@catlynne333 You are doing the right thing. Ignore your family ๐
@matuzalem ๐คฃ @gemswinc
@gemswinc No she hates me I remind her of bites and growls