@Museek @_txgal I felt this 100%... Minnesota couple replies about not being able to defend oneself around family, then I can attest to that as well when my father was really super sick My sister would not let me speak to my father and then when he died I wasn't there to say goodbye I don't know if I can ever forgive my sister for that because she continues to lie about it even though I had friends who were right there with me when it happened (I had her on speakerphone)...