@MLClark

Thoughts:
resiliency or robustness.

It is what one does after the emergency, confusion, anger, and agony have passed, that lays claim to wisdom. "She's been through a lot, and she is still dancing." Says more about experience and resiliency, then it does determination and grit. Strength and robustness will get you through the immediate emergency. Yet soft resiliency will inform and teach you to bend, flow, and continue dancing.