I'm at the point in my career where I know that nothing really matters that much. I've stressed, lost sleep, pulled my hair out over projects that eventually never got realized - shelved, pushed out, shutdown. Worthless unnecessary negative impacts to my mental state. Unless lives are at stake, shit just isn't that important.
@HoustonTx it's hard, and something I still struggle with.
@brucefraser despite that knowledge, for me, I still have a difficult time with ‘no’ and especially at work.