Am I being too fickle saying I won't date a smoker? It's actually a serious question. Seems like everyone I meet is a frequent smoker (and I don't mean pot either)
@Timmah1979 even though I’m a smoker I say no. Smoke doesn’t smell good, second hand smoke is extremely unhealthy, and it turns everything yellow. It’s honestly a bad habit all around.
@Timmah1979 smoking leaves a terrible odor and is unpleasant to taste. i dated a could of smokers and I would say it's healthier to wait for a non smoker.
@kenyatta2009 that's what I'm trying to do but the lectures are coming in now. I was engaged once at 28. It didn't work out to put it nicely. I'm now almost 44 my parents are mid 70s and I'm the only one that's not married. My mother's like I'd like a grandchild from you before I die and your not getting any younger either. Then she pulled your expectations are too high card 😂. I got 4 things I look for. Can't be a pats fan, gotta accept Sundays I can't be bothered during football season
@Timmah1979 @kenyatta2009 Don’t let them pressure you into the kids thing. Kids are difficult and expensive. I don’t date smokers either. They are also difficult and expensive.
@MississippiGoneCoastal @Timmah1979 i don't have a womb
@Timmah1979 it's not her decision
@Timmah1979 no, you are not. Smokers smell bad, their vehicles smell bad and if they smoke in their homes, the house smells bad too. My experience is they lie and say they quit, but sneak it, and it’s obvious when kissing they are lying to you.