@kenyatta2009 that's what I'm trying to do but the lectures are coming in now. I was engaged once at 28. It didn't work out to put it nicely. I'm now almost 44 my parents are mid 70s and I'm the only one that's not married. My mother's like I'd like a grandchild from you before I die and your not getting any younger either. Then she pulled your expectations are too high card 😂. I got 4 things I look for. Can't be a pats fan, gotta accept Sundays I can't be bothered during football season