@cassandra17lina We are TOLD the boyfriend has been trying to help her gain weight.
The real problem is he hides from us, therefore isn't communicating anything about her.
He was a professional couch surfer before they met.
@CanisPundit @cassandra17lina we had an opportunity for such a session but we deferred because my wife would... (checks notes)
"verbally rip his face off"
@SECRET_ASIAN_MAN @CanisPundit @cassandra17lina
I know this is a dire time, but that did make me lol. ❤️your wife.
@SECRET_ASIAN_MAN and that's why you do the session with an impartial party - there are degrees of "face ripping" and as long as boyfriend is in the mix better to have scratches than bath salt smoking face ripping and ingestion - so to speak - outpatient and un-moderated. @cassandra17lina
@SECRET_ASIAN_MAN @CanisPundit @cassandra17lina
Have you had the "she's your girlfriend, but she's my daughter, and I'd hate for her to wonder what happened to you" talk? I find it can be very effective.
It is hoped she sees that he is not good for her.
I wish the best for you and your family.
@SECRET_ASIAN_MAN I suggest doing a family session before discharge that includes your daughter, her boyfriend, you and your wife. @cassandra17lina