I'm realizing that I need to approach life with a more positive attitude. Sure, they day may go pear-shaped. But if I wake up every morning with "Oh, what fresh hell is this?", I'm guaranteed stress.
@mPony True that. And I'm pretty resilient. But Jesus, these past few months have been rough emotionally.
I've always felt that pessimism was less disappointing than optimism. When things go to shit, you're not caught unaware and when they go well, you're pleasantly surprised.
@BenA Pessimism wears me down too much, though.
@LiberalLibrarian it's a ballance thing. Good things happen, bad things happen, it's the perspective that everything is either good or bad that kills ya. Reality is both. if you can't find good in a day. Make some. Even if it's just a small thing. Especially if it's a small thing. Small happiness adds up. Start with your self. It really does help.
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@LiberalLibrarian staying positive about life day-to-day can be pretty damn tough, depending on circumstances. I know some resilient people and even they crack a bit from time to time.
All I know is if I had the answer I'd give it away for free.