i really dislike passive aggressive crap. Tom came down this morning & said "we need to clean off the porch"... which means he thinks i should clean the porch
two points: we don't use the porch ever, except for storage. and i already cleaned it a couple months ago & all that needs done is taking the 3 bags & couple boxes of trash to the dump, which i asked him to do MONTHS ago. if he wants to take the ferret cage to the storage unit, that's fine too.
@redenigma If you stay together long enough you can call each other on it and have a laugh. "'We,' Kemosabe?" Or "'We' as in 'me,' dear?"
If my spouse were in your shoes she'd be all over me with something like "Maybe I can pay someone to take that stuff to the dump, I asked my husband months ago but he's too busy ... not sure with what ...." delivered in a slow, quiet, thinking-out-loud voice.
I think annoying each other has become one of our love languages.