G'Morning🌹☕
2015: close Aunt murdered. The next month, a neighbor, driving out of town in our truck, hubs riding along, totalled it. Long story, but, driver died 2x in car as I sped back to our city, 45 miles away w/him/wife & hubs to🏨. (I'm from NY; I getz there; dang all traffic rules🏁)
Anyway, after my revenge filled streak🤐, another aunt taught me, again, to just forgive for Aunt & neighbor (I did & we're💯 civil now).
Sat. night, to our complete😯they bought a🦃dinner over❤️
Forgive
IMO
If revenge keeps you physically connected to someone in a negative way, you didn’t do enough of it.
But I’m not even alright:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VnuGC3reAkc
... So make of that what you will.
In all seriousness - revenge doesn’t necessarily mean harming the other party physically.
It could just as easily be walking out of their life without another word and letting their own guilt eat them alive.
“The opportunity to defeat the enemy comes from the enemy himself.” Sun Tzu.
@GlytchMeister 🤣video; yeah...I getz that way💯when mad. Portuguese/Native/Black/NY coming out all at once ain't too purdy😶😂And💯 on letting guilt eat them alive. I've always been taught to 'treat my enemies with kindness' & to keep them close. I often forget😁I saw these folks(never paid repairs/cursed hubs for asking $!) go down in their lives after I just said "Ok. Gonna let it go & forgive 'em; I still have hubs💝" Can't say I didn't 🤣a few times at stuff that Karma took care of.