I hionestly don't 'get' why new people come here and the very first thing they do is huff and puff, and sigh, and moan 'why can't I do this' or 'why haven't you done that'. It's just rude.
It's like meeting someone for coffee and when you turn up they say 'man, I hate your outfit, you are 2 seconds late, I never really liked you anyway' and then leaving.
People are odd!
It's just human nature. No one wants to feel uninformed and vulnerable. You don't walk through a rough neighborhood looking lost, and they are used to walking through a very rough neighborhood.
@AlphaCentauri True. And I WAS that vulnerable newbie. But, when I coudln't do things, I just asked and people replied to me really helpfully. There's a way to say things I think. And arriving and slagging it off instantly just isn't the way!