it's rather devastating to find that a friend passed away mid-November, and not ONE of our mutual friends informed me. I learned of it through a FB post two days ago, and the actual date via her FB page. Yeah, cancer sux. (I survived) but ya know what else sux? "friends" who say "but I thought you knew" and those that act like I didn't' know her at all. At least I know no one will miss me when I pass on. Except my blood family. ๐ โฐ๏ธ