Statistics show that we should all know and love someone who is of a deeply marginalized community, if you are not actively marginalized yourself.
So everyone here is either going through this reality actively in a way that is truly horrific and definitive to their lives or loves someone who is living it.
That’s a lot for a community to be expected to handle.
If we can’t be civil in one of the last open bastions of public discourse we are absolutely fucked.