I'm not allowed to talk about how much I'm sick of winters here & would love to move, without being told I'm "Oh poor me-ing" & told randomly "there are ways" & basically told off & told to fuck off by family for wanting to express this.
I'm not allowed to express these feelings. I'm just supposed to stay feeling stuckb forever, I guess. But not actually talk about it or get help with these meant l many "ways" that exist. Just allowed to talk about others, but not about myself ever.
@Tattoomonkey29 I wish I could. Thanks. I'd like to move to California, but don't have the funds to move anywhere.
@Astartiel ๐ I'm sorry , can you switch out the people around you?
@Tattoomonkey29 Wish it was that easy.
@Astartiel ๐บ ๐ญ I'm sorry that you don't have options!
@Astartiel @Astartiel Gotta be brutally honest here..
...you need new family.
@Avidspark @Astartiel MArie Kondo that family. I did with mine, never been happier.
@Nimthiriel @Avidspark If I had any choice, I'd move to California, but I don't have any funds to even move down the street, let alone to another state.
@Astartiel leave. Your life and happiness is more important than their hate.
@NorthernInvader If I could, I would, but I'm barely surviving right now, so I don't have much choice.
@Astartiel Oh, you're still living with them? That sucks :( Don't have anyone with a spare room who'll charge you extremely cheap rent, or no rent at all while you find your feet?
@Nimthiriel Yes & no, I wish I did, in California...
@Astartiel Might be best to just get out of there and figure out better options later. Often just getting out of that sort of environment can help you think and see things more clearly because a whole layer of stress has been removed.
@Astartiel ๐ I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, it's hard enough to live where you hate the climate without being penalized for it and not allowed to vocalize, home should be comfortable and safe both physically and emotionally ,I hope that you get this resolved!