People often make it sound like knowing the difference between fiction and reality is all that matters. That ignores why humans tell stories. And, yeah...I knew it was fiction when I was a kid. But those characters gave me examples of the kind of person I could become. When I trusted no one, I found safe space in books, movies, and episodes. They raised me.
@weirdfizz , I once dreamed of flying free because I had read Anne McCaffrey.
She didn't raise me, but definitely helped me get by and aspire.