@Rise4rmdarkness I want to say something uplifting, but I'm not Black. I don't carry that. I'm likely to say something cheap and empty. It even puts a wall between myself and Black family members at times. So all I know to do is sit with that and look at why our society made sure I won't know how to lift a Black person up.
@weirdfizz I thank you for this. Empty words are easy so thank you so much for finding a way to show some empahty and understanding without minimalizing my feelings.