When you are unhealed you can't hear anything through a clear lens.
𝘐𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘤𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶.
Most of the stuff I get from white people in regards to anti-racism is usually defensiveness, anger, emotional dysregulation, discomfort ... basically just tons and tons of fear ...
Unhealed people are dangerous and harmful in all kinds of situations and for all kinds of reasons.