If you were to ask my family they'd tell you that growing up I was a negative child ... that I had dark thoughts ... that I was pessimistic.

I think from their perspective that was absolute TRUTH. In their reality, what I was expressing brought those feelings out in them.

I had started to focus on and embrace very early in order to deal with physical and emotional abuse (from them) and the rest of the world.

I talk about that here: counter.social/@thewebrecluse/

To me it was REALISM.

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My perspective was always on REALISM and the truth of my existence which, for them, was absolutely abhorrent.

I find this is true even online when it comes to people expressing the truth of their lives - especially BIPOC people.

Their reality is horrible for others to read about ... so much so that people will just flat out deny it's truth in fits of delusion and anger.

I talk about people living in different realities all the time because THEY DO. They aren't the same worlds AT ALL.

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Everyone's reality is specific to them ... it's DIFFERENT from others around them.

Think about people who live with or or who are or people who have or or whatever it may be.

Their worlds are, in many ways, impossible for you to comprehend living in and difficult for you to relate to.

The reality of living is different for everyone. You can only hope to scratch the surface of it ... but it doesn't make it less real.

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For many people and even my family ... my reality COULDN'T be real. My realism COULDN'T be truth.

That would mean that they would have to see something of themselves in it. That would mean they would have to face some kind of level of responsibility in what pain and misery I was expressing ... and there was no way in Hell that was happening.

This is true for those who deny the pain, hardships, and anger of others. They would have to recognize their contributions to it or their ignorance.

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@thewebrecluse what you speak ok reflects my life experiences in so many ways, and I took a similar path. It’s a manner of self protection, I think, in a world that doesn’t understand, and one you may be trapped in.
I hope you’re finding your way through the brambles… sometimes it means leaving that whole thicket entirely behind you.

@nopuppet_007 I just hang out in my brambles. ❤️ It's best for me 👍🏾

@thewebrecluse then I wish you a life wrapped in love and compassion despite the brambles.

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