: I rarely ask for help because this has been my experience almost exclusively over the decades. I found through direct experience and observation that people help when they want to and only when they want to, which means that when they don't want to they actively dislike being asked for help. If people help when they don't want to, then they hold grudges.

#experience #observation #AspieLife #DisabledLife #neurallyatypical #actuallyautistic #residentalien #theweirdkid