The less you give a damn, the happier you will be.
@ecksmc: That seems to work for some folks. What works for me is giving a damn but not getting all hot, bothered, and frothy over things I cannot control. As I've said for years and will continue to for as many more as I am alive, a bit of perspective and a modicum of emotional self-regulation goes a long way.
@thedisasterautist everything in moderation