@tgraph52 No disrespect! Yours is an absolutely appropriate perspective. I think musicking is for everyone to do (I spent 25+ directing amateur choirs, and teach ~45 students a week). I was more addressing the "I'm being driven from music" posts out there - if you can survive doing something else, please do, and please enjoy making music, as well. But some cannot survive without music at the center (when I thought I had to try, it didn't go well....).
@t_heislen
Even 100 years ago when I was in a working band, it wasn't a desperate calling. It was social, exciting and the second most fun thing you can do in the world.
I'm just an old retired guy now so my options are more lax... I fill my days with music, photography and, lately, endlessly moving files around my various HDs 😜