@q00w2 Oh yeah, Top Gun Maverick was that mentality on steroids: "Don't think. Just do."
This is changing in several serialised stories, where people's humanity is being explored, and "talking about it" has lost a lot of its stigma.
This probably has a *something* to do with storytellers' own changing comfort level with therapy. 🙂
But, y'know, there is still a lot of the old "just tough it out on your own" mindset running freely through our culture(s).