@snyde21 I don't really feel the need to know what someone's "real" gender identity is. I only need to know how they would prefer to be addressed, sort of like how if they tell me their name is Mary or John, I know they'd prefer to be called that, rather than Biff, or "Faggot".
I mean, really, for fuck's sake, who _cares_ why someone wants to be called Mr., Ms. Zir, or Zee? Do we care why their name is Bob? So why should we care whether Bob wants to be called Him or Her?
@snyde21 Let everyone shine to their brightest brilliance. Wasn't that the idea behind making us recite "with liberty & justice for all"?