@arthurpendragon

Ok, this sounds closer to some of the other gazillion sites. I need to do both processes: fabric softener for my nice clothes and get my towels back to being absorbent.
But, how do I not pour the vinegar directly on the clothes? I've got an HE machine where I have to put the detergent (vinegar?) in first, pile the clothes on top, and then start it up. I do have a fabric softener dispenser ball.