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but I was at her house tonight while the nurse was there, and she found this bill and asked me about it. I did, what I now call “CYA’d myself,” and notified the rest of the family. Sometimes I can’t help but think that life would be less stressful without a conscience or compassion.
Was there a better way I could have communicated what I was trying to get across or is my SIL being her typical argumentative self and not really providing a solution?
@see_the_sus
They're trying to reassure you it will be paid and theyre alao a bit embarassed it's past due. The good thing is that One of your brothers said he would call & handle it. Somewhat frustrating I know but at least its being worked on. Ive been there it's stressful. Make sure you find a way to work through the stress and do some self-care before bed.
I’m vegging out in front of the tube with my feline monsters.
My main issue is that SIL just kept saying the lawyer would pay but no one was saying, “I’ll send it to the lawyer.”
My method of communication is very clear, precise, & explanatory, to avoid miscommunication as much as possible. I often end up asking a lot of questions or repeating myself because I’m not getting the response I need in order to understand.