I have an ex husband drunk texting me, 3 nights in a row so far, after I told him to stop. We share a kid so its harder. But I divorced him like > 2 decades ago and kid is > 30.

Its been a learning thing for me. I wanted to destroy him with shitty (well deserved) words but instead I told him I hoped he’d get help, find an aa meeting near him and just try it.