Family is friggin' exhausting. Feels like time to cut some folks loose.
One of my siblings keeps saying she's supportive of me being trans but, according to other folks I know, she's been going on online tirades about keeping trans people out of sports. She insists that this doesn't mean she's transphobic 🙄. Now, I've never called her out on that (other friends and family have though), but she wants me to apologize for what those other people have said about her regarding this. I have vehemently refused to do so, and that's where we stand now.
@Kaysymmetry oof, that's hard. :(
Have you pointed out to her that she's asking you to apologize for the actions of others?
@rpardee oh I have definitely told her I'm not apologizing for the words and actions of others. But I guess since my name was mentioned in the conversations, I'm somehow responsible.