🤔 the more I observe moms behaviors and thinking back on other times following counseling, and what my sister has shared with me on her end, it's no wonder my brain short circuited 4 years ago in combination with the death of my grandparents traumatic accident. Mom is racist, sexist, elitist, prejudiced, cynical, and a narcissist, but she words things in a way that most people think she's being nice to you.