@MotherDucker
That's one of the hardest questions I ever had to answer. My personal experience was this: if I feel I need to try, I try (therapy, family therapy, conversations, etc). It takes two people to dance. At some point you either see the change or you run out of ways to try. When I run out of ways to try, after some time the desire to try was gone too. That's when I left. I even kept the door open, he only needed to walk through it. He didn't. That's how it was over. You do you, tho