I can’t understand adult children who completely walk out of their entire family’s lives. How can someone choose that cruelty? Sure you may have a beef with a particular family member but that’s no reason to stop seeing or talking to your grandmother who’s not involved or younger cousin who doesn’t understand why this person they looked up to is no longer around. The ease with which young adults drop all contact with people who care greatly for them makes me sad.

@StarlightEmber
Instead of blaming these who walk away of not being good enough, maybe try asking them why they did it?
I know multiple situations where relatives were so toxic that it was driving people into depression. After multiple futile conversations they chose to walk away so save their mental health. If someone does not respect your boundaries, walking away might be the best choice. Relatives don't have Carte Blanche